Hi all, so some of you have been telling me that you are having trouble with leaving comments below. This whole time I just thought that nobody was reading my blog! Lol! I have been trying to investigate and apparently you have to have a blog account somewhere to be able to comment on someone else's blog. That's bogus! Well, somehow I came upon some settings and added an "anonymous" option. So, if you would like to comment and don't have a blog account yourself, please choose the anonymous option and just sign you name after the comment so I know who left it. Thanks!
The reason I looked deeper into the comments thing is because I would love some feedback today. I have been doing a lot of planning, organizing, designing, even started working on a website. Now I've come up with a slogan for my business but I'm still debating the name. I'm torn between "Cakes for Grace" and "Cakes from Grace." I had originally thought of Cakes for Grace because I wanted to make every cake in honor of Gracie, as if I were making every single one for her. But Cakes from Grace stuck out too, because it is only through the Grace of God that all of this is happening. God showed me and told me this is what he wants me to be doing with the talents he has Graced me with. -and then I also had a thought, all these cakes are Gracie inspired, so maybe she is helping me, she has a hand in each one. I'm torn! So I need some input, what do you guys think?
Here is the slogan I have come up with...
Cakes from Grace
"Cakes to warm every broken heart
...in loving memory of Gracia Lorraine, born with half a heart"
Cakes for Grace
"Cakes to warm every broken heart
...in loving memory of Gracia Lorraine, born with half a heart"
Thank you in advance for your comments!
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
Monday, January 21, 2013
"Cakes for Grace" - coming soon
I have had some very eventful and life-changing experiences within the month of January. In my last post I talked about working for The Cakery in Hudson, WI. I was so excited about the opportunity of getting to do what I love to do everyday. Well, since I started there, it's been one disappointment after another. All I really want to say about it is that they use boxed Duncan Hines cake mix for all their recipes. Can you believe they let bakeries make that and sell it for profit under their name?! SO WRONG! Well that's just one reason for my disappointment and I could go on and on about it all day but I won't.
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I attended a women's conference on January 12 with some friends and I am so glad I went. The key speaker, Susie Larson, was amazing! It was as if God was speaking through her to me. She talked about how she had struggles with finances and had babies in the hospital and came down with a disease after a pregnancy just like me, and always had a dream of speaking and writing a book. She talked about the struggles that related so much to me. I don't know how to explain it but it was like God was whispering to me the entire day. Telling me to follow my dreams and take a leap of faith. I came home that day and told Shawn about it all and he agreed that I should make it happen.
For those of you that don't know me very well, I have always had the dream of owning my own cake business. After graduating high school I had to make the choice between going to school for music or for cooking. I chose music, which I am glad I did because I may have never met my handsome hubby. After working in a bakery, being in cafe management for years and culinary school, this is still my dream.
The morning after the conference I woke up hesitant and worried about my decision and asked God to whisper to me one more time, just one more sign, nudge, anything. So I got up worked out and while I was getting ready for church he spoke to me again. This time he put a picture in my head. I pictured making cakes in my house and they were in churchs and shops but then I had this vision of giving them away to special heart kids like Gracie and having Gracie's love put into all of them. Before she passed I had this big plan for all the thousands of Cakes I would be making for Gracie throughout her life. I want every single cake I make to be in honor of her. I want to see other kids who are effected by congenital heart defects (CHD's) light up when they have one of my cupcakes. I want to spread awareness, I want to show my support to CHD families and give back!
There are two very special heart organizations in Minnesota that have supported and been there for our little family during the months that we were preparing for Gracie's arrival, during her first surgery and recovery, and still there for us after she left. One is called "Lasting Imprint" and the other "Parents for Heart." These two organizations have several events and fund raisers throughout the year and starting next month during CHD awareness week (2nd week in Feb), I will be donating my cakes and cupcakes to those events to show my support and to have the opportunity to share Gracie's incredible story.
I have been praying the passed few months to figure out a way to honor Gracie and continue her legacy. I think Gracie and God had this idea all along for our family. Now I need your help! I have been thinking of a name for this business and need some input/ideas. My favorite name that I came up with is Cakes for Grace. I would like it to have something either about Hearts or Gracie/Gracia. Any ideas? Any slogan ideas? There might be a cupcake in it for ya! ;-)
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Shawn and I just got home yesterday from a weekend away in Danbury, WI. We were at a place called Faith's Lodge. It's a place for bereaved parents to share their stories and spend time remembering their babies that have passed on. It was great to get away and meet some really great couples experiencing the loss of their babies as well. Yes, I even took over their kitchen and made everyone cupcakes, I couldn't go a few days without baking! :-) We did a lot of crafts; made journals, painted a birdhouse and heart-shaped rock, the guys did a wood project, we laughed, we cried, and we made some pretty good friends.
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I wanted to leave you all with this verse...
Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not upon your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your path.”
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Lasting Imprint- http://lastingimprint.org/
Parents for Heart- http://www.parentsforheart.org/
Faith's Lodge- http://www.faithslodge.org/
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I attended a women's conference on January 12 with some friends and I am so glad I went. The key speaker, Susie Larson, was amazing! It was as if God was speaking through her to me. She talked about how she had struggles with finances and had babies in the hospital and came down with a disease after a pregnancy just like me, and always had a dream of speaking and writing a book. She talked about the struggles that related so much to me. I don't know how to explain it but it was like God was whispering to me the entire day. Telling me to follow my dreams and take a leap of faith. I came home that day and told Shawn about it all and he agreed that I should make it happen.
For those of you that don't know me very well, I have always had the dream of owning my own cake business. After graduating high school I had to make the choice between going to school for music or for cooking. I chose music, which I am glad I did because I may have never met my handsome hubby. After working in a bakery, being in cafe management for years and culinary school, this is still my dream.
The morning after the conference I woke up hesitant and worried about my decision and asked God to whisper to me one more time, just one more sign, nudge, anything. So I got up worked out and while I was getting ready for church he spoke to me again. This time he put a picture in my head. I pictured making cakes in my house and they were in churchs and shops but then I had this vision of giving them away to special heart kids like Gracie and having Gracie's love put into all of them. Before she passed I had this big plan for all the thousands of Cakes I would be making for Gracie throughout her life. I want every single cake I make to be in honor of her. I want to see other kids who are effected by congenital heart defects (CHD's) light up when they have one of my cupcakes. I want to spread awareness, I want to show my support to CHD families and give back!
There are two very special heart organizations in Minnesota that have supported and been there for our little family during the months that we were preparing for Gracie's arrival, during her first surgery and recovery, and still there for us after she left. One is called "Lasting Imprint" and the other "Parents for Heart." These two organizations have several events and fund raisers throughout the year and starting next month during CHD awareness week (2nd week in Feb), I will be donating my cakes and cupcakes to those events to show my support and to have the opportunity to share Gracie's incredible story.
I have been praying the passed few months to figure out a way to honor Gracie and continue her legacy. I think Gracie and God had this idea all along for our family. Now I need your help! I have been thinking of a name for this business and need some input/ideas. My favorite name that I came up with is Cakes for Grace. I would like it to have something either about Hearts or Gracie/Gracia. Any ideas? Any slogan ideas? There might be a cupcake in it for ya! ;-)
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Shawn and I just got home yesterday from a weekend away in Danbury, WI. We were at a place called Faith's Lodge. It's a place for bereaved parents to share their stories and spend time remembering their babies that have passed on. It was great to get away and meet some really great couples experiencing the loss of their babies as well. Yes, I even took over their kitchen and made everyone cupcakes, I couldn't go a few days without baking! :-) We did a lot of crafts; made journals, painted a birdhouse and heart-shaped rock, the guys did a wood project, we laughed, we cried, and we made some pretty good friends.
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I wanted to leave you all with this verse...
Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not upon your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your path.”
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Lasting Imprint- http://lastingimprint.org/
Parents for Heart- http://www.parentsforheart.org/
Faith's Lodge- http://www.faithslodge.org/
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
5 months old
Today would have been Gracia's 5 month Birthday. Thinking about her a lot today. As I look outside at the pretty fluffy snow falling, I wonder what she would have thought of the snow or what she would have thought of the pretty lights on our Christmas tree. I can just see her bright eyes gazing at them and smiling. Even though she never got to come home, she is everywhere in our house. Pictures and Gracie things in every room.
December was a hard month with my birthday and Christmas and New Years. I for once am glad it's over. For Christmas my family wrote letters to Gracie in Heaven and attached them to balloons, that made me happy,knowing that she may have gotten them, even if it's just in my mind. It is hard starting a new year. 2012 was the most amazing, life-changing, challenging, and devastating year I've ever experienced, and will probably ever experience. I spent every day this passed year with my Gracie girl. She was either inside me or right beside me minus the last 69 days of the year.
We actually found out we were having a baby the week before New Years last year and announced it on New Years Eve 2011. At our 12 week appointment my OB wanted us to get an ultrasound because the baby felt big and warned us we might be having twins. A week later I was reassured we were not and felt a sense of relief but then was concerned when the technician asked me to come back to talk with the doctor about something she saw. A week later we were told it was most likely turners syndrome and that I could expect a miscarriage any day. After taking an amniocentesis, test results were normal and we were confused and again, relieved. Looking for more answers we had another ultrasound and looked closer at the heart. There they found only half of one but we also found out we were having a girl. We knew she was our Gracia right away.
You've all read the story about my 32 hours of labor and scares that Gracie gave us and then being rushed into an emergency C-section. I lay on that table nervous and waiting to hear news that she was ok. Then I saw her in a picture that Shawn took on his phone. She was beautiful. Then they brought her into the room all bundled up and brought her up close to my face so I could see her. I cried and I said "she's pink! they said she would be blue, but she's pink!" She was an angel, even then. Even though I saw her for such a brief time after I gave birth, I will always remember the first time I saw her and the first time she looked at me.
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As for me, I have some new news. At the beginning of December I met a lady that is taking over a Cakery in Hudson, WI. Long story short, I am her Cake Decorator and am also helping with the redesign of the Cakery as well. A potential bakery that could someday be mine. We'll see how I feel about it years down the road. Since this job is very part time right now because it is not wedding season yet, I am still running my cake business from home, so if you still need a cake, give me a call. I was very busy this last month with wedding cakes and Christmas cakes so that made me very happy and busy. I have also been experimenting a lot lately, I have about 8 new cake recipes. Check 'em out... http://beckscakes.shutterfly.com/
I was also recently diagnosed with Hyperthyroidism, may be Graves' disease but they have decided to treat it as thyroid disease right now. I've had many symptoms and my body has just felt like it's been falling apart and shutting down since October but I kept on being told it was just stress and post partum stuff. Well I happen to know my own body, and losing hair, being tired all the time, and losing 40 pounds in as little as 4 months is not ok and is not normal and guess what, I was right! To this day, doctors still never listen to me, it's really too bad I don't have the paper that says I can diagnose myself.
I wanted to leave you all with a story that I came across and I believe I was meant to see it. I believe this was part of Gracie's story before she came down to keep us company...
Half of an Angel's Heart
It's a beautiful day up in Heaven. Jesus is rounding up his tiniest
angels, to go live on earth, and be born.
One of the sweetest angels says to Jesus "I don't want to leave, I
like it here, and I will miss you." He reassures the scared little
angel that everything will be okay, and that she is just going for a
visit.
She is still not swayed on this idea. So Jesus, kneels down, and
says "How about if you leave half of your heart here with me and
take the other half with you, will that be okay?" The angel smiles
and says "I guess that will work".
But the little angel is still a little scared. She asks "Will I be
okay with only half of my heart?" Jesus replies, "Of course you
will, I have other angels there that will help out, and you will be
fine."
Then Jesus gives the angel more details about his plan, he
says "When you are born, your Mommy will be scared, so you have to be strong, and when you feel weak just remember that I have the other half of your heart." "Enjoy your time with your family, play and laugh everyday."
"And when its time to come back to Heaven, I will make your heart
whole again." "Always remember, that you are not broken, just torn between two loves."
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Some more poems that came my way and say it all...
When I Became a Heart Mother.....
One day my world came crashing down,
I'll never be the same.
They told me that my child was sick...
I thought, am I to blame?
I don't think I can handle this...
I'm really not that strong.
It seemed my heart was breaking...
As, I'd loved her for so long.
I will not give up on this child...
despite your best "advice".
I will give my child a chance...
No matter what the price.
And I will learn all that I need...
to help my child to thrive.
I'll even use that feeding tube...
My child will survive!
Will she require therapy?
What if she can't gain weight?
Alright God I can do this...
I will not curse our fate.
The feeding pump beeps, at 3:00 a.m.
It serves as my reminder...
How many parents would welcome that sound?
Tomorrow Lord, I will be kinder.
Another angel earns their wings...
and I run to my sleeping child's bed...
I watch her then, for quite awhile...
Bend down and kiss her head
Then I cry for the parents whose lives have been broken,
And I look to God wondering why?
Oh Lord, I just can't know your ways...
No matter how I try.
And yet, I trust You to hold her life,
And guide us through each day
My mind says savor each moment she's here...
But my heart whispers,
"Please let her stay".
From... pacing the surgical waiting room...
to sitting by her hospital bed...
From... wishing for a good night's sleep...to learning every med...
From wondering will she be alright?
To watching her reach out her hands.
With every smile, my heart just melts.. despite life's harsh demands
For all who see that faded line...I look to them and smile...
You see, my child is loved so much...
I would face any trial.
That same scar I trace with my finger...
It's the door to her beautiful heart
I never guessed how much I'd love her...
Just as YOU loved her right from the start
A heart mom is always a heart mom...
Now wise beyond her years
And for those who have angels in heaven...
Our hearts share in all of your tears.
Everyday I will strive to remember...
You chose me for her and no other
And I will embrace that beautiful day...
When I became a "heart mother".
~Stephanie Husted
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Another Heart Poem:
I had plans...
such perfect plans...
of how our life would be...
A perfect job, a perfect home...
a perfect family.
It seemed like it should be that way...
(of course we'd have our trials)
But most days would be sunshine...
Laughter,love, and smiles...
And then, as I held pictures...
of my child, not yet born...
And heard the words "a heart defect"...
My own heart became torn.
First came the "Hows"...
Then came the "Whys"...
Then came the question...
What if my child dies?
Hiding for a little while...
trying so hard just to cope...
Wondering will she be okay?
living each moment with hope...
I thought that perhaps,someday...
I could breathe with a sigh of relief...
And know that she will be okay...
And let go of my grief...
It seems that moment doesn't come...
As each day starts anew...
I realize I must start each day...
By giving her to You...
Whatever Your plan for her life is...
I trust that it's written with care...
And You are God no matter what...
(Even when life isn't fair)
So I will really LOVE today...
So thankful that she's here...
And give her too many kisses...
And try to let go of my fear...
I'll try not to be so resentful...
And remember that life is for living...
I'll smile just knowing, she's here with us now...
And hold tightly to each day we're given.
~Stephanie Husted
December was a hard month with my birthday and Christmas and New Years. I for once am glad it's over. For Christmas my family wrote letters to Gracie in Heaven and attached them to balloons, that made me happy,knowing that she may have gotten them, even if it's just in my mind. It is hard starting a new year. 2012 was the most amazing, life-changing, challenging, and devastating year I've ever experienced, and will probably ever experience. I spent every day this passed year with my Gracie girl. She was either inside me or right beside me minus the last 69 days of the year.
We actually found out we were having a baby the week before New Years last year and announced it on New Years Eve 2011. At our 12 week appointment my OB wanted us to get an ultrasound because the baby felt big and warned us we might be having twins. A week later I was reassured we were not and felt a sense of relief but then was concerned when the technician asked me to come back to talk with the doctor about something she saw. A week later we were told it was most likely turners syndrome and that I could expect a miscarriage any day. After taking an amniocentesis, test results were normal and we were confused and again, relieved. Looking for more answers we had another ultrasound and looked closer at the heart. There they found only half of one but we also found out we were having a girl. We knew she was our Gracia right away.
You've all read the story about my 32 hours of labor and scares that Gracie gave us and then being rushed into an emergency C-section. I lay on that table nervous and waiting to hear news that she was ok. Then I saw her in a picture that Shawn took on his phone. She was beautiful. Then they brought her into the room all bundled up and brought her up close to my face so I could see her. I cried and I said "she's pink! they said she would be blue, but she's pink!" She was an angel, even then. Even though I saw her for such a brief time after I gave birth, I will always remember the first time I saw her and the first time she looked at me.
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As for me, I have some new news. At the beginning of December I met a lady that is taking over a Cakery in Hudson, WI. Long story short, I am her Cake Decorator and am also helping with the redesign of the Cakery as well. A potential bakery that could someday be mine. We'll see how I feel about it years down the road. Since this job is very part time right now because it is not wedding season yet, I am still running my cake business from home, so if you still need a cake, give me a call. I was very busy this last month with wedding cakes and Christmas cakes so that made me very happy and busy. I have also been experimenting a lot lately, I have about 8 new cake recipes. Check 'em out... http://beckscakes.shutterfly.com/
I was also recently diagnosed with Hyperthyroidism, may be Graves' disease but they have decided to treat it as thyroid disease right now. I've had many symptoms and my body has just felt like it's been falling apart and shutting down since October but I kept on being told it was just stress and post partum stuff. Well I happen to know my own body, and losing hair, being tired all the time, and losing 40 pounds in as little as 4 months is not ok and is not normal and guess what, I was right! To this day, doctors still never listen to me, it's really too bad I don't have the paper that says I can diagnose myself.
I wanted to leave you all with a story that I came across and I believe I was meant to see it. I believe this was part of Gracie's story before she came down to keep us company...
Half of an Angel's Heart
It's a beautiful day up in Heaven. Jesus is rounding up his tiniest
angels, to go live on earth, and be born.
One of the sweetest angels says to Jesus "I don't want to leave, I
like it here, and I will miss you." He reassures the scared little
angel that everything will be okay, and that she is just going for a
visit.
She is still not swayed on this idea. So Jesus, kneels down, and
says "How about if you leave half of your heart here with me and
take the other half with you, will that be okay?" The angel smiles
and says "I guess that will work".
But the little angel is still a little scared. She asks "Will I be
okay with only half of my heart?" Jesus replies, "Of course you
will, I have other angels there that will help out, and you will be
fine."
Then Jesus gives the angel more details about his plan, he
says "When you are born, your Mommy will be scared, so you have to be strong, and when you feel weak just remember that I have the other half of your heart." "Enjoy your time with your family, play and laugh everyday."
"And when its time to come back to Heaven, I will make your heart
whole again." "Always remember, that you are not broken, just torn between two loves."
---------------------------------------------------
Some more poems that came my way and say it all...
When I Became a Heart Mother.....
One day my world came crashing down,
I'll never be the same.
They told me that my child was sick...
I thought, am I to blame?
I don't think I can handle this...
I'm really not that strong.
It seemed my heart was breaking...
As, I'd loved her for so long.
I will not give up on this child...
despite your best "advice".
I will give my child a chance...
No matter what the price.
And I will learn all that I need...
to help my child to thrive.
I'll even use that feeding tube...
My child will survive!
Will she require therapy?
What if she can't gain weight?
Alright God I can do this...
I will not curse our fate.
The feeding pump beeps, at 3:00 a.m.
It serves as my reminder...
How many parents would welcome that sound?
Tomorrow Lord, I will be kinder.
Another angel earns their wings...
and I run to my sleeping child's bed...
I watch her then, for quite awhile...
Bend down and kiss her head
Then I cry for the parents whose lives have been broken,
And I look to God wondering why?
Oh Lord, I just can't know your ways...
No matter how I try.
And yet, I trust You to hold her life,
And guide us through each day
My mind says savor each moment she's here...
But my heart whispers,
"Please let her stay".
From... pacing the surgical waiting room...
to sitting by her hospital bed...
From... wishing for a good night's sleep...to learning every med...
From wondering will she be alright?
To watching her reach out her hands.
With every smile, my heart just melts.. despite life's harsh demands
For all who see that faded line...I look to them and smile...
You see, my child is loved so much...
I would face any trial.
That same scar I trace with my finger...
It's the door to her beautiful heart
I never guessed how much I'd love her...
Just as YOU loved her right from the start
A heart mom is always a heart mom...
Now wise beyond her years
And for those who have angels in heaven...
Our hearts share in all of your tears.
Everyday I will strive to remember...
You chose me for her and no other
And I will embrace that beautiful day...
When I became a "heart mother".
~Stephanie Husted
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Another Heart Poem:
I had plans...
such perfect plans...
of how our life would be...
A perfect job, a perfect home...
a perfect family.
It seemed like it should be that way...
(of course we'd have our trials)
But most days would be sunshine...
Laughter,love, and smiles...
And then, as I held pictures...
of my child, not yet born...
And heard the words "a heart defect"...
My own heart became torn.
First came the "Hows"...
Then came the "Whys"...
Then came the question...
What if my child dies?
Hiding for a little while...
trying so hard just to cope...
Wondering will she be okay?
living each moment with hope...
I thought that perhaps,someday...
I could breathe with a sigh of relief...
And know that she will be okay...
And let go of my grief...
It seems that moment doesn't come...
As each day starts anew...
I realize I must start each day...
By giving her to You...
Whatever Your plan for her life is...
I trust that it's written with care...
And You are God no matter what...
(Even when life isn't fair)
So I will really LOVE today...
So thankful that she's here...
And give her too many kisses...
And try to let go of my fear...
I'll try not to be so resentful...
And remember that life is for living...
I'll smile just knowing, she's here with us now...
And hold tightly to each day we're given.
~Stephanie Husted
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Missing Gracia
I have decided to start a blog mostly for myself and my grieving, but also for my family and friends that were following Gracia's Caringbridge site. I decided I needed a place to vent, a place to express my interests and hobbies, a place to write about my frustrations and happiness, and a place to write about my journey with God by my side. I hope you can all write me words of encouragement here as well, especially on the hardest days.
Well this past month has been a roller coaster ride of emotions. I have ok days, hard days, harder days, and days I don't want to get out of bed. Some days I just want to sit in Gracia's room and cuddle her elephant, Fern, and smell her outfit that I never washed that I keep in a ziplock that still smells like her and look through her pictures. For those of you that know me very well, I like to keep busy and go go go and do do do, so there are days where I just want to bake all day, which my family knows I've been doing a lot of. But then there are days I surround myself with friends and family and I have fun and laugh and can talk about Gracie and just smile thinking about what she would be doing if she was there with me. Thanksgiving was a hard day for me. It was exactly a month since the last day we spent with her. There were a lot of people gathered at the Hunt's household in Monticello and it was almost too much for me. On Friday we celebrated Thanksgiving with my family and it was small, but everyone that was there knew Gracie. We all went around the table, like we always do, and all said what we were most thankful for this year. We all talked about Gracie and her and God's mission for the time that she was with us. We laughed and we cried but we all felt God's presence in the room with us. I can't tell you how much my life and perspective on everything has changed in the past 4 months. God has been with me everyday and every struggle and he LOVES ME SO MUCH! I like how Brad explained Gracie's life verse at the funeral, he hit it right on the head! Her verse says " When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you; when you walk through the fire, you will not be burned." This verse doesn't say that when you pass through the rivers, you won't have to paddle like crazy or when you walk through the fire, you won't feel the heat, it says that God promises he will be with us every step of the way. Through wind and rain, through storms and sunshine. Why? BECAUSE HE LOVES US!
Gracie has shown up a number of times through Gods nudges and songs being played. She used to love hearing us sing "wheels on the bus" to her and would just light up when we made hand gestures of wipers swishing and babies going wah wah wah. A few days after Gracie passed my dad was in a kinkos getting copies of pictures for the service. While he was waiting, some employee in the back room was randomly singing "wheels on the bus." There have been quite a few times where I've been cooking or baking in the kitchen and one of the songs that I used to sing to Gracie starts playing on pandora. Even my Uncle Jim has felt nudges...
The Monday after Gracia’s Coming Home Service, Jim went back to work. He had parked his truck the evening of Thursday, and there it sat until Jim was ready for work on Monday. Jim drives a big truck that hauls big dumpsters. He was prepping his truck for his morning run and backed it up but it did not feel right. He pulled forward again and then reversed the truck and something still was not right. Jim felt a tapping of sorts to get out of his truck and check it out. When he did he found that the axel in the front was bad and if he would have pulled onto the freeway for his morning run he would have lost a tire that may have rolled and if it hit a car it could have been deadly. More than likely his truck would also have rolled at highway speeds as well. Jim got back into his truck and felt Gracia’s presence beside him. He immediately called his wife, Teri, and she said "you know who was watching over you, don’t you?” Jim replied ‘yes, it was our little angel, Gracia."
I have done a number of projects in honor of Gracia in the past weeks. I made a Christmas wreath with purple and pink flowers on it with butterflies that is now hanging on our doorstep. I also finished a shadowbox with all of her special things in it that is now hanging in her room. I have a few other things up my sleeve for Christmas.
I wanted to also take the time to thank all of you that made it to her service. There was an incredible amount of people there, I wish I could have visited with you all, but thank you for being there with us. Her service was so special and I worked so hard to make it "very Gracie," and it was exactly what I wanted. Thank you to those of you who sent cards to us as well. If any of you who couldn't make it to the service and would like to see it, please let me know, we would love to show you the recording. I will leave my contact info at the bottom of this message.
As many of you know, I do not have a job right now. My only income is my cake business. I have been baking like a mad lady and trying to find belly's to put it all in may be easy, but not always convenient or cost effective. :-) If you have a need for a cake or cupcakes, please think of me or if you know anyone or hear anyone that is in need of a cake, please mention my name. I would greatly appreciate it! Here is my web page... www.beckscakes.shutterfly.com. I also have a Facebook page just search for "Queen of Unbleached Flour."
Becky Hunt
www.beckscakes.shutterfly.com
Beckyahunt@hotmail.com
763-229-7890
Well this past month has been a roller coaster ride of emotions. I have ok days, hard days, harder days, and days I don't want to get out of bed. Some days I just want to sit in Gracia's room and cuddle her elephant, Fern, and smell her outfit that I never washed that I keep in a ziplock that still smells like her and look through her pictures. For those of you that know me very well, I like to keep busy and go go go and do do do, so there are days where I just want to bake all day, which my family knows I've been doing a lot of. But then there are days I surround myself with friends and family and I have fun and laugh and can talk about Gracie and just smile thinking about what she would be doing if she was there with me. Thanksgiving was a hard day for me. It was exactly a month since the last day we spent with her. There were a lot of people gathered at the Hunt's household in Monticello and it was almost too much for me. On Friday we celebrated Thanksgiving with my family and it was small, but everyone that was there knew Gracie. We all went around the table, like we always do, and all said what we were most thankful for this year. We all talked about Gracie and her and God's mission for the time that she was with us. We laughed and we cried but we all felt God's presence in the room with us. I can't tell you how much my life and perspective on everything has changed in the past 4 months. God has been with me everyday and every struggle and he LOVES ME SO MUCH! I like how Brad explained Gracie's life verse at the funeral, he hit it right on the head! Her verse says " When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you; when you walk through the fire, you will not be burned." This verse doesn't say that when you pass through the rivers, you won't have to paddle like crazy or when you walk through the fire, you won't feel the heat, it says that God promises he will be with us every step of the way. Through wind and rain, through storms and sunshine. Why? BECAUSE HE LOVES US!
Gracie has shown up a number of times through Gods nudges and songs being played. She used to love hearing us sing "wheels on the bus" to her and would just light up when we made hand gestures of wipers swishing and babies going wah wah wah. A few days after Gracie passed my dad was in a kinkos getting copies of pictures for the service. While he was waiting, some employee in the back room was randomly singing "wheels on the bus." There have been quite a few times where I've been cooking or baking in the kitchen and one of the songs that I used to sing to Gracie starts playing on pandora. Even my Uncle Jim has felt nudges...
The Monday after Gracia’s Coming Home Service, Jim went back to work. He had parked his truck the evening of Thursday, and there it sat until Jim was ready for work on Monday. Jim drives a big truck that hauls big dumpsters. He was prepping his truck for his morning run and backed it up but it did not feel right. He pulled forward again and then reversed the truck and something still was not right. Jim felt a tapping of sorts to get out of his truck and check it out. When he did he found that the axel in the front was bad and if he would have pulled onto the freeway for his morning run he would have lost a tire that may have rolled and if it hit a car it could have been deadly. More than likely his truck would also have rolled at highway speeds as well. Jim got back into his truck and felt Gracia’s presence beside him. He immediately called his wife, Teri, and she said "you know who was watching over you, don’t you?” Jim replied ‘yes, it was our little angel, Gracia."
I have done a number of projects in honor of Gracia in the past weeks. I made a Christmas wreath with purple and pink flowers on it with butterflies that is now hanging on our doorstep. I also finished a shadowbox with all of her special things in it that is now hanging in her room. I have a few other things up my sleeve for Christmas.
I wanted to also take the time to thank all of you that made it to her service. There was an incredible amount of people there, I wish I could have visited with you all, but thank you for being there with us. Her service was so special and I worked so hard to make it "very Gracie," and it was exactly what I wanted. Thank you to those of you who sent cards to us as well. If any of you who couldn't make it to the service and would like to see it, please let me know, we would love to show you the recording. I will leave my contact info at the bottom of this message.
As many of you know, I do not have a job right now. My only income is my cake business. I have been baking like a mad lady and trying to find belly's to put it all in may be easy, but not always convenient or cost effective. :-) If you have a need for a cake or cupcakes, please think of me or if you know anyone or hear anyone that is in need of a cake, please mention my name. I would greatly appreciate it! Here is my web page... www.beckscakes.shutterfly.com. I also have a Facebook page just search for "Queen of Unbleached Flour."
Becky Hunt
www.beckscakes.shutterfly.com
Beckyahunt@hotmail.com
763-229-7890
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